
Dealing with a high-conflict divorce is not easy. You have to deal with heightened emotions, stubborn spouses, or high-value assets you cannot agree how to split. This can be exhausting, both emotionally and physically. A contentious divorce requires experienced legal help you smooth it out as much as possible and to protect your rights along the way.
At RPM Law, our Maryland divorce attorneys are ready to stand at your side, no matter how hard it gets. Get in touch with us for a personalized approach to your Maryland divorce case.
Defining a High-Conflict Divorce
What is a “high-conflict divorce?” There is no official answer, but it is one that involves more difficult and emotional litigation. These feelings and frustrations often revolve around topics such as:
- Child visitation or child custody issues
- How to divide up your marital property
- Claims of abuse or false allegations
- Child support and/or alimony considerations
Conflict is usually higher when the parties are unable to communicate well together, or one spouse has been the subject of physical or emotional abuse.
Custody Disputes and Parenting Plans
Child custody is one of the areas most likely to create conflict in your case. Maryland courts will determine custody based on the best interests of the children. They consider several factors, including, but not limited to:
- Each parent’s ability to provide a stable environment
- History of caregiving and involvement
- Willingness to foster a relationship with the other parent
- Any history of abuse, neglect, or substance use
In high-conflict divorces, the court can appoint someone to view your home, children, and their situation. This might include a Best Interest Attorney or a custody evaluator. They can help create a parenting plan and advise the court on how to proceed.
Dividing Up Your Assets When Financial Disputes Exist
Maryland, like many other states, uses an equitable distribution model to divide up your assets. High-conflict divorce includes the normal asset issues of any divorce, but is often affected by:
- Business ownership or valuation issues
- Accusations of hidden assets or income
- Financial misconduct such as theft, gambling, or other irresponsible conduct
- Refusal to comply with the court’s orders
Domestic Violence and Protection Orders
When the divorce includes threats of violence or actual harm, it can become much more complicated. During the divorce, one spouse may not be allowed to contact the other and may even get temporary custody over the children.
This can significantly impact the level of conflict in the case.
How You Can Help Limit Conflict Where Possible

You can try to limit conflict in your divorce by:
- Utilizing a skilled attorney to negotiate a favorable resolution of your case
- Always choose to speak in a respectful tone, even if your spouse refuses to
- Document everything and keep accurate records
- Communicate only through your attorney
- Follow all protection orders or other orders of the court
These and other tactics can be extremely helpful in limiting conflict in your divorce.
Work with a Qualified Maryland Divorce Attorney in Your High-Conflict Divorce
A high-conflict divorce will require some emotional resilience on your part, and strong legal advocacy from your lawyer. You have the right to protect your interests and seek a favorable resolution of your divorce. Our team at RPM Law stands ready to help with your child custody needs. Contact us today for a consultation.
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